I've had this idea for a while of changing Rufus Spiller.com into something that is more evenly split between the BJJ and training stuff and the rest of my life. What tipped the balance was a podcast called Heavyweight and in particular the episode Tony which followed a guy who had regrets over losing touch with his Godchildren.
What if part of the problem was that I only had one route? Once I was in Guard I only wanted to pass. What if there were other less direct ways. Like if you are in a car and you get stuck in traffic. You can't go forward but you could turn around and try a different route.